It was evening and the cafeteria was crowded. When there is crowd, you hear noise. The noise was on someones laugh, someones shout, to add colour the music was on. I moved with tea and snacks to occupy the corner vacant seat, I found one of my friend sitting alone. Usually the cafeteria is a place for fun and sharing fun. But it observed that the friend of mine was lost in different world. I observed that he was very dull, with tears in eyes. I could make out that something wrong might have happened in the day.
I remembered my own childhood days and even today, when I feel let back or sad, I openly share with a person close to me, with whom I trust. They always keep affirming me that don’t get sad, and put some nice advice with good words. Reflecting to some examples of success. This actually builds the confidence within our self and try to ensure that positive vibes are passed and infused. But today a mild criticism on anything, people will start saying “ Its enough and I cannot handle life or Iam going to die for this”. Be it be positive thing that required in life or other. Today even someone wish to give advice, they look at the negative side of the event and try to build negative webs making the other person scared and scattered. Even a minor criticism or shout today people cannot digest it. These power of word has made people very sensitive.
We use a lot of words in our daily life and the world is full of words. Time and Words are one cannot be earned back. Many a times, in our day to day life we start pulling some ones legs, and make fun of him. Some times deliberately to hurt and sometimes just for fun. We never understand what the other person feel about our actions. This is similar to throwing a stone in the river, and laughing. We do not know how deep the stone has gone inside the water. Most people, when they desperately want something, will say things like, “I am dying this!”. What is worse is that we are quick to mention death when things go wrong or even right?.
Bottom-Line
The truth is that every word you speak has power — to build or destroy hopes and dreams, to restore or cause loss, to heal or break, to bring delight or despair, to bless or curse.
Use the Words to ensure good
For God’s Word says that death and life are in the power of the tongue