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Posted May 09, 2013 | What I did today? | 1073 Views   

+++++ DOUBLY Blessed +++++

What a wonderful day! I got blessed with sister for my daughter on 1st May 2013. Today, both Rashmi and the New born are healthy and doing good.(photo attached for both my daughters on 1st May itself at the Air Force Hospital,Kanpur) Previous... What a wonderful day! I got blessed with sister for my daughter on 1st May 2013. Today, both Rashmi and the New born are healthy and doing good.(photo attached for both my daughters on 1st May itself at the Air Force Hospital,Kanpur) Previous day my wife had labour pain and got admitted in the hospital at 12 night.I was not allowed to stay at the hospital due to the prevailing norms at the hospital! Came back with worried mind. Early in the morning, I was given the great news! My mother in law also heard the news but she did not seem that happy and excited! However we did hurry and reached at the hospital in no time. Rashmi came out at wheel chair with tears rolling down. It was indeed a re- birth for a lady going through such a painful experience. Hats off to all mothers of this world. Punya, my daughter was in the school and was informed by me that she got her own sister! Later the same day she distributed sweets in her class with a great proud in her body language! Rashmi and the new born headed for home the very next day as the delivery was normal one. ------------------------------------------------ End of Part I ---------------------------------------------------------------------- My neighbors kept pouring in to congratulate me. However, there was a common sentence from many of them``agar ek ladka ho jaata to achacha thaa!`` I was un-pleasantly surprised. I was so happy with this gift of God.The source of my surprise were all ladies with at least one boy child! Among readers also, many must have gone through such a situation where you may be quite happy with some happening with you, but people around you may make you feel otherwise. I put forward few very relevant frank and convincing points in favour of girl child. Sorry if it `hurts` anyone!
  1. Girl child start helping their parents right from their childhood for all internal house core activities.
  2. They are easier to rear up.
  3. They do not `irritate` their parents much.
  4. They are more studious and hard working.
  5. Even after marriage they are emotionally more attached to their parents.... always willing to come to the ailing parents and help them in real time.
  6. It is said that `Kanyadan` is the biggest `dan` of this world.
  7. Girls give more weightage to the pride of their parents and try always to make their parents proud with various activities.
  8. I feel coming years will give more importance to girl child and people are getting more sensitive about girl issue.
  9. Their is always `Kanya puja` each year formally.
  10. Societies have `soft` corners and probably have more respect for the parents who are rearing up only girl children.
I urge all the readers to put your views please on the topic raised. You may please add few more points with your experience. I thank you.
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Tags: girl Child
Posted Mar 04, 2012 | What I did today? | 1259 Views   (Updated Mar 04, 2012 09:13 PM)

Would you like to come into a rewarding new Lifestyle, I am there already !

I have many friends from almost all walks of life from a Auto Rickshaw wala in Vizag to a Scientist in Chennai. It`s a human tendency to compare you with your counterparts in the form of wealth and status. I was also not an... I have many friends from almost all walks of life from a Auto Rickshaw wala in Vizag to a Scientist in Chennai. It`s a human tendency to compare you with your counterparts in the form of wealth and status. I was also not an exception to it, after all me too a mortal like any other human being. With careful analysis, I found that in terms of money I can hardly compete with many of my friends. But, I found that I can make myself much better OverallWellness wise. I came to know Wellness is a broad concept. One may have abundance of money but poor health. Then he or she can not be said as Well because he is good at Financial Wellness but very poor at Physical Wellness. Likewise Emotional Wellness deals with being less stressed on all time. Spiritual Wellness deals with the health of the Spirit within. Intellectual Wellness deal with mind as how much you are in control of it. Social Wellness deals with developing ability to find abilities in others. Cultural Wellness is being aware of one`s own cultural background as well as the diversity of richness present in other cultural backgrounds. Environmental wellness is correct use of natural laws. This concept attracted me a lot. I did Wellness course from IGNOU and got more and more emersed into it. Physical wellness is a very vast subject. But being a Dietitian now, I would like to astonish you by saying that for last 32 days I have not taken plain water!! It became possible because of putting myself into a law made by God not human being! My daily diet is 80 percent Raw vegetable,Fruits, Nuts and seeds, sprouts and only 20 percent cooked food. My kitchen is almost Fire less and goes for full 5-6 months! The history of cooking food is hardly 1000 years old and unfortunately the history of diseases which is so common today is also 1000 year old. How I achieved the 32 days No water Feat? The day starts with one glass Noni fruit juice.The Break fast includes all the raw vegetables like Carrot, Beetroot,radish, all fruits like grapes, dates, oranges, coconut etc. This, I keep munching throughout the day till 2 PM. So where I need water, as sufficient water is present in all these natural food. I go for normal urinals for 2-3 times till 2 PM. The Lunch has more of Dal and vegetables and lesser chapati and Rice. After the Lunch is over little carrot or cucumber or radish. So, again I did not need water. Evening again at around 5 PM I have one more round of raw veg and fruits. The Dinner is completed before 8 like the Lunch. By 10 again I have few cucumbers, radish etc. The result is a vibrant health and glowing skin with mind full of my control. Being 36, looking just.....??? I and my family is in full wellness system and hence our PREVENTIVE HEALTH INSURANCE IS DONE FREE OF COST FOR WHOLE LIFE. Will you also like to try your hand into a superior life full of Wellness for you and your family because you love youself and your family. Do share your experience with me as now your MSian is a Dietitian!! I thank you I love you. Read More
Tags: wellness System
Posted Feb 19, 2012 | What I did today? | 1363 Views   (Updated Feb 19, 2012 05:06 PM)

Rolling on Floor Laughing

Feb 19, 2002, morning 0345hrs. Our Auto is about to come to pick me and my family to drop at the Kanpur Central Railway station. Facebook page is already updated ``Moving for Vizag to celebrate my marriage anniversary on 23 Feb.``@deepak27... Feb 19, 2002, morning 0345hrs. Our Auto is about to come to pick me and my family to drop at the Kanpur Central Railway station. Facebook page is already updated ``Moving for Vizag to celebrate my marriage anniversary on 23 Feb.``@deepak27 was first to like that status on FB. Thank you Deepak. We made haste and reached the station and the Train Purushottam Express was in time at 0445 hrs. Ours had two lower Berths. We found our seats were occupied!!. They were all sleeping. I requested politely to vacate our seats, but no one listened. Then my wife started taunting with little louder volume saying ``Sleeper me toh berth occupy kar he letein hain, ab AC berth bhee log occupy karke kitni beshrami se so rahen hain`` Now an upper berth gentleman tried to diffuse the situation by requesting my journey ticket. I oblised him. He said, ``Sir today is 19th, but your ticket print shows the journey date to be 20th`` Oh God, what a disgrace to me!!!!! Now, it was urgent to take the corrective action as the train was about to leave the station. I apologized to the passengers for our mistake and told Rashmi, ``Move out of the train, immediately``. It was done just in time. The train moved. At the Platform No 5, we were looking at the outgoing train helplessly. My wife was almost shocked at the initial experience of our marriage anniversary trip to Vizag. Soon my five year old daughter Punya started crying. it took next ten minutes of convincing to make her stop crying. Now, we were going back home. Enroute in the Auto, I was not able to make eye contact with my family. We all were shocked at sheer wastage of Time, Energy and Money. The next worry was to hide this incident with our neighbors. As we had started in dark hours and even reached back in early morning hours only, hoped that we will be able to hide this incident. I told to my family to not to call anyone on mobile and not to go outside today!!. We slept, as it was still around 0530 morning. But by 8 AM, there was a knock at the main door and a voice came, ``Rashmi, kya aap ghar ke ander ho?`` We told, ``Yes``. The neighbor said,``Bahar tala nahin laga tha toh socha pooch lein`` Now the `secret` was no more a secret!! I decided now totackle the situation head on with few long laugh at myself. They also joined and it was some half an hour talk and laugh. Now, the male member of my neighbor brought his journey ticket and started rechecking it after our incident and even requested other members too to recheck it. We are already ready for the next day 24 hours ahead. Going to call the same Autowalah!! Life is beautiful and I am loving it. I love my family for the cooperation they extend everytime. Read More
Tags: train journey
Posted Dec 11, 2011 | What I did today? | 1429 Views   (Updated Dec 11, 2011 10:08 PM)

Look, what I learnt today?

My mother in lawwas coming to Kanpur from Bihar. My car was not serviceable. I took my bike and went for receiving her. The train was indeed overloaded. But, as I was knowing the Boggy No, she was located and helped to co... My mother in law was coming to Kanpur from Bihar. My car was not serviceable. I took my bike and went for receiving her. The train was indeed overloaded. But, as I was knowing the Boggy No, she was located and helped to come out. But, the luggage was awesome. She had two big plastic bags full of materials like home grown vegetables, fruits and some prepared eatables for me. The luggage also included two sky bags, fully loaded with all the personal items. I searched for some collie, but did not find one. I, being a fauzi, remembered my tough training days of initial years. I gave the lighter skybag to my mother in law to carry and took one at my back and the big plastic bags on my two hands. But, with the enormous load, moving ten steps was a big challenge for me. We were at platform No 3 and had to cross one pool, full of moving persons. I could never maintain my desired pace. Irritation crept in more and more as I could not show it to my mother in law. At one instance, I felt that enough was enough. But, giving up was a humiliating option for me. I carried on. In next 15 minutes I was outside the station. My both the hands, including the ten fingers were shaking from inside. But, I felt as if I conquered Mount Everest!! I learnt that one should always keep himself/herself fit to as much degree as possible. It ALWAYS helps. Being physically also keeping mentally agile and up. Friends, please keep yourself into a wellness system. Be as much close as possible to nature. It ALWAYS pays. Read More
Tags: wellness System
Posted Nov 24, 2011 | General | 1179 Views   

Let`s Relive once and every time

In today`s world, no job is perfect. A job may look any lucrative, but it does have some elements, which one may not like to have. But, you can not do anything about it. At 3:30 evening, I was coming back from my duty place in Kanpur... In today`s world, no job is perfect. A job may look any lucrative, but it does have some elements, which one may not like to have. But, you can not do anything about it. At 3:30 evening, I was coming back from my duty place in Kanpur. I was in a hurry to reach back to my family. Nearby My duty place, there is a job recruitment centre for IAF. I needed to slow down my car as candidates, in large numbers, were coming out, which made the traffic congested. I had no choice left but to have some patience to have almost zero speed for my car. I observed the faces of many candidates. All looked so anxious and worried. They did not know as what they will do next to have a decent job. I saw their parents and guardians too, in the same body language. I RE-LIVED the same scene of mine 15 years ago. I was outside the gate of a recruiting agency, but had come out successful in my job test, in my first attempt itself. Many related scenes flashed back in a sequence. I pondered, `Today I have few complaints about my present job and at times, I feel that I could have been in a better job``. But, again, I thought that had I not been selected in my present job 15 years ago, could I have complained about my job, the same way? Certainly Not. I feel that ups and down in a job is part of ANY job on earth. When we feel low at times, please do RE-LIVE the `selection moment` and draw those initial days feeling again. You will feel much better and do better for your present job. Read More
Tags: Satisfaction at job
Posted Nov 03, 2011 | What I did today? | 1108 Views   (Updated Nov 03, 2011 10:11 PM)

~~~~~Try this ~~~~~

Most of us are normally driven by one or the other material cravingsin our life. We work hard and try to earn as much money as possible even at the cost of ignoring some of the very important activities of the life. We tend to accumulate... Most of us are normally driven by one or the other material cravings in our life. We work hard and try to earn as much money as possible even at the cost of ignoring some of the very important activities of the life. We tend to accumulate the latest items available in the market. The items which give a lot of happiness today, tomorrow seems to us as an obsolete item. We keep on pondering the ways to gain more and more such items. I , too, was not an exception to this. I needed a cycle when I was in school. I was provided a brand new Hero Jet cycle. I felt as if I was the happiest person on earth. But within a month, I felt that the cycle was no longer giving that much joy. I got service and got financially independent. The first big item, I purchased was my Bajaj Caliber Bike for Rs 47000 in year 2000.I was again with heavenly pleasure. I felt that enjoyment for good one year, then I did not have that much pride of owning my own bike. Then came 2003 and I was new in Agra. I got attracted to have my own mobile phone which was just launched by Relience CDMA there with special concession plan in which I just needed to pay Rs 500 to get a cute and light weight Samsung B & W set. It was a postpaid connection and I did not mind shelling out Rs 2500 to 3000 a month as my monthly bill. I was so obsessed as in my last transfer in the North East, there was no mobile phone only few STD booths where I used to be in queues, every time I needed to call my near and dear ones. Soon my obsession shifted to getting better handsets which gave happiness for limited time only. I owned a second hand car and was so happy, once again for few months only ! I was doing meditation one day and decided something to come out of this vicious circle. I started myself imagining that whenever I felt like to change my old but still useful item, I shall give Auto Suggestion to myself that today is the FIRST day of using that item. Miracle happened my dear brothers and sisters!! I was on cycle and was moving ahead for purchasing some items from nearby. I gave the same AUTO SUGGESTION and started enjoying like owning new cycle. Same good feeling came while driving my old bike, old car and even my old Nokia Mobile phone. Not only that, I started having an Auto suggestion that I am newly married person. Believe me, I was having an excellent and unique feel of `those` days. Friends, do try this AUTO SUGGESTION, which may bring wonderful happiness and you may avoid getting into vicious circle of accumulating items. Read More
Tags: life
Posted Oct 10, 2011 | What I did today? | 1336 Views   (Updated Oct 10, 2011 05:21 PM)

I Thank You, I Love You

Today, when I look back, there is flashback in front of me. I feel great, sharing those moments with you all. I joined our beloved site on 10 Oct 2009. I was searching for a good second hand hatchback car w... Today, when I look back, there is flashback in front of me. I feel great, sharing those moments with you all. I joined our beloved site on 10 Oct 2009. I was searching for a good second hand hatchback car within a lakh. When I put the key word `Matiz` on Google, instantly the choices came, MouthShut_Official.com being the first in the list. I wanted full value for my car purchase. I read the first review on any site. It was `Matiz` car review on www.mouthshut.com. It had 88 percent MS recommendation, at par with Maruti Zen which also had the same recommendation. I read all available reviews along with some YouTube videos for the car. I purchased the car and the car is still serving me well which I purchased for Rs 52000 in Chandigarh. Being obliged, I decided to explore the site more. I was mesmerized with the home page which had few profiles with photographs. I guessed that they had contributed in some way or other and that`s why their photographs were featured!! I felt great and continued copy pasting from a site, till some 25 in total.It took some two weeks. I got a warning message from MS Admin to refrain from such practice. I was stunned to know that I was committing a great mistake. I just wanted to increase my DP counts which looked nice underneath the profile. I did not know that why I was in that hurry to increase my DP counts. But, good sense prevailed and I deleted all 22 odd diary posts in single attempt. I sent one sms also, announcing this proudly. I still remember @confusedsoul @ange_babe55 etc who had appreciated my act in very liberal words. Things were going good. I was very happy to go through almost each review and Rate and comment them. I started writing reviews too and was happy getting comments and ratings. Meanwhile I learnt, what to write in the DP by going through DPs of @maaz_nawaz, @confusedsoul, @cindy @angel_babe55 etc. I got my first FD which was my 21st post. It instilled a great confidence in my writing skills. Earlier I had got my ROTD also and was feeling so special. I still cherish those wonderful moments today. But as every success comes with a price. My family life was little strained because of leading almost an addictive life on MS. But, one day I discussed with my wife which you know @Rashmi.Sinha and the things became alright. The very next day a Star was attached by the side of my ID. She was also motivated to start involving herself on this site. Today, I see that she also has a decent following on MS. It brings happiness to me. I feel indebted to MS for many reasons like establishing me a writer which I had never dreamt of, a wide variety of knowledge, related to all kind of products and services, a huge list of wonderful friends who are comparable to my real world friends. Today, I am confident that no one can deceive me – any product or service. But if somehow they manage to do so MS is there to expose them nicely. I feel doing this is certainly a distinguished form of social service and MS is helping all writers doing that. Read More
Tags: love and happiness
Posted Aug 31, 2011 | What I did today? | 1113 Views   (Updated Aug 31, 2011 11:49 AM)

~~~ Life full of Guilt ~~~

God gave me good health, wealth, family, friends and `peaceful` life. But, I was not peaceful in real sense as my life was full of guilt feeling till those were identified and addressed. There were many but I mention few here. During... God gave me good health, wealth, family, friends and `peaceful` life. But, I was not peaceful in real sense as my life was full of guilt feeling till those were identified and addressed. There were many but I mention few here. During my collage days, I was preparing for the Engineering Entrance in reputed collages. I had a good cycle, but I insisted to have his Bajaj Scooter for my tution to save little time and energy. My father agreed and he himself took my cycle and continued. It continued for almost two years. I could not clear any of the reputed exams and later joined IAF as an air warrior.When I was in training centre my father underwent a surgery for hydrosil for which one of the reason was cycling too much.Since then I had a guilt feel. I volunteered for Martial Arts classes in Bangalore from Mr Babu T. Raghu and when I got passed out I was at Red Belt standard and had completed Basic Rock Climbing Course also. Later I participated in sixMega High Altitude Expeditions, each year once in the Himalayas. I got married in 2006 and did not participate in any Expeditions for two reasons... One because of a new responsibility and second I heard many negative talks about my Instructor who was also team leader for Mountaineering Expeditions. Also, I was undergoing some financial hardships because of high cost involved in such expeditions. I have a guilt of not pursuing my martial art and adventure activities as expected out of me as I was going quite good and was holding a Black belt. I was teaching martial arts too. I have two sisters. I have guilt of not assisting my dad adequately, financially during the marriage of both the sisters. The last guilt is giving too much time to our beloved MS. I have failed in four papers in my MBA exams from IGNOU because of putting more time to MS and less for my studies. I prefer to write in my comment section for the action taken to get rid of Guilt and to have real peace in my life. Read More
Tags: life
Posted May 24, 2011 | What I did today? | 1086 Views   (Updated May 29, 2011 02:04 PM)

*** Stand Promoted ***

Transfer is an inevitable part of a defence personnel. I stand posted out from Chandigarh. My duty area is in Kanpur, one of the biggest city of UP. Though, Kanpur stands no where near to Chandigarh in terms of Cleanness, wish to... Transfer is an inevitable part of a defence personnel. I stand posted out from Chandigarh. My duty area is in Kanpur, one of the biggest city of UP. Though, Kanpur stands no where near to Chandigarh in terms of Cleanness, wish to abide law in full among the general public, road discipline etc but it has few merits too as the cost of living is considerably low as compared to most of the big cities in India. As far as Air force station is concerned, it is as impressive as the Air Force station Chandigarh. I was on promotion posting to Kanpur. But God wanted to give me a small challenge that day. My father in law Mr A K Choudhary is a project manager in Rania( 40 Km from Kanpur). As my family is not with me due to posting for few weeks, I was residing with my father in law for few days. My promotion was on Saturday at 0715 hrs. I started at 0535 in the morning. No sooner than I started on my bike than a very heavy dust storm started. I had planned an average speed of 55-60 Km/hr. But this storm forced me to remain at 35-40 upto 35 long Km. My uniform was already placed in a room in AFS kanpur. I arrived at 0650 and got engaged in re ironing of my uniform with the higher rank. I was feeling great even while ironing as getting rank in armed forces is one of the most interesting times for a fauji as it is hard earned every time. At 0715, I was in the headquarter in my best uniform. The Commanding officer congratulated me and gave me a motivation lecture which filled my heart with more pride being an air warrior. I distributed sweets to all present there. I called my parents, wife, daughter and in laws on my mobile and received blessings. I assure all my countrymen once again that our country is in safe hands. You all keep doing the good work for the country in your own capacity. Jai Hind. God bless all. Read More
Tags: promotion
Posted Feb 21, 2011 | General | 904 Views   (Updated Feb 21, 2011 08:03 PM)

When I fired live rounds

I had already learnt how to do a parade in defence. Now it was the time to do some `live` work. I was in a Battle field Range where we were to do live firing practice. We had our live rifles and were issued w... I had already learnt how to do a parade in defence. Now it was the time to do some `live` work. I was in a Battle field Range where we were to do live firing practice. We had our live rifles and were issued with twenty rounds each. Our Ground training Instructors were on there job with utmost care as we all were just a novice as a firer. We all listened to the instructions carefully like ``We needed to put the muzzle of the rifle towards the dummy target in any case, in case of any problem while firing we were just to raise our left hand. It was one day before the deepavali. Whole country would be celebrating the festival but I was to remain at the training centre. Never mind, I consoled saying to myself, ``Let me celebrate this Deepavali with live rounds one day before itself `` The command was given ``Fire.......................... I hit the first bullet itself to the `Bull` and was appreciated. By the time twenty rounds were over, all were sent to the `dummy target` to bring our target sheets. There were ten firers and I was found the most accurate as all twenty rounds were hit inside the first circle. Those, whose all the rounds were not found on the target were awarded with `rifle over the head` punishment !!! Now we were coming back to our base. But I felt that I was not able to listen properly to my friends. The reason was the huge sound of bullets for many hours at the Range Firing practice. This status persisted for 48 hours with diminishing effect. This practice filled my heart with a lot of confidence and the real taste of a soldier. Even after putting many years of serving with the IAF, I have been regular in practicing with live rounds practice. My arms include Pistals, Light Machine Guns and other arms. That`s why there is a popular saying in our Armed Forces.. `` The more you sweat in peace, the less you bleed in war``. I assure my countrymen that our country is in safe hands and we can counter and type of aggression from any enemy. Jai Hind. Read More
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