A 5 letter word, but is one of the most important thing in everyone's life. It doesn't matter whether a person is filled with immense humor, or having heart of gold, or maybe rude, But what matters at the end is whether that person is trust worthy or not?
Even though you might be rude but trustworthy, u will still have many people who will love you. Trust is like a mirror, once its broken it can be put back but the reflection wont be that clear and impressive.
We always consider our friends as an integral part of our life, that we can't live without and we need them all the time along, but trust me i've always been ditched by my friends. It's a true saying that Learning to trust someone is one of life's most difficult tasks ever. One can say it's my bad luck that i've never had trust worthy friends, so much so that nowadays I never trust anyone except for my parents, brothers, and 2 of my best friends.
While writing this blog, i've been remembered by @maaz_nawaz.blog https://mouthshut.com/blog/geheopmrs/Dear-Dustbin and I totally agree with him, hats-off on giving me inspiration for writing this blog @maaz_nawaz.
A quote by william shakRajeev_Vermaare " LOVE ALL, TRUST A FEW, AND DO WRONG TO NONE. " is one to take inspiration from.
Never tell anyone your secrets, because when you yourself can't keep your secrets within you than how can you expect others to keep your secrets?
Tell your secrets to the person you trust, but the person whom you trust should be solid like rock, firm, steady.
There's this incident that happened to me few years back, me and my good friend Shaun were boozing one day and he suddenly puked out all his secrets to me. I gulped down all the heavy statements that Shaun made, and we left for the day very high. After few weeks, Shaun comes to me and starts abusing me and even raised his hand on me. To my surprise I never expected Shaun to do or act like the way he did. I got really pissed and on asking him I came to know that the secrets that he told me while boozing were disclosed to others, obviously not by me but someone else and Shaun being my good friend din't even trust me on saying that I din't leak out his secret.
This is where TRUST word came into picture, I din't tell a soul about his secrets but he din't trust me even on swaring to GOD. Maybe he must have told his secrets to someone else and they must have leaked it out. I really don't believe why din't he trust me at least this much. Today we both ain't friends even, whenever he sees me he tries to avoid eye to eye contact. This incident is so much in my mind that I never want to know anyone's secret neither would I disclose my secret to anyone else.
To be trusted by someone is a greater compliment than being loved.
All I would say is trust very very few people that can be countable by your fingers, as this would be a benefit for you itself.
Don't trust anyone, and by chance if you trust someone, trust that person whole heartedly.
Never make fun of this 5-letter word as it can be very lethal and destructive. I lost my 5 years long friendship with my childhood friend Shaun.
Many of my friends ditched me too which refrains me always to share my deepest secrets with my best mates too.
Even though your not entertaining, not that good as a friend, not that humorous but still people will love you and your company if your trustworthy.
TRUST - Never break it, neither let it break
Regards,
Nidhinpp
