Hey everyone how are you doin? I'm pretty much fine... survived the cooking month somehow... feel like have won a trophy... ;)
I have so many things going on in my mind right now... so I just remembered this place where I can TAKE IT OUT haha... May be I'll go one at a time...
Today I wanna talk about success n relationshiops. It's sad but true... they are directly proportional. The more successful you become, the more best friends you make who are ready to do anything for you, ready to be with you in your bad times[which actually aren't so bad].
Take yourself back to a time [if you had], where you were just alright... a regular person... not so well-accompolished... or when you were ACTUALLY in your bad times...
who was by your side besides your family[who has no other option] then?
Where are they now?
Have you kicked them out of your lives or are they still around?
Did u so got carried away by the shine of your success that you lost them far behind or did you have the guts to show it to the world your "not so happening" friends n relatives by saying they are just so perfect for you?
Do try to answer these questions !! :)
Honey attracts many people, but everyone runs away from the bees who created it... always remember, once you are there... you will have the formula to success so you can very well kill all these bees from your life but then you will never be able to generate the same pure honey again... it will all be artificial.
Sad thing is, artificial is so in fashion coz pure n real is becoming rare... :)
But do you think it is that bad to be pure n real? No it is not! Just try it and give it a shot !! You will be able to be one yourself. Be honest n decide the right n wrong n am sure you will know which path to follow if you plan to be the pure n real. It does take courage to do so but then that's why pure n real is invaluable... :)
This whole chaos starts right from our childhood... back to society n how it runs. Your child achieves something you throw a bash but if he doesnt you discourage him to no bounds... compare him... which is the worst thing anyone can do...
School-college time... there are trends of popularity or seasonal popularity... school re-opens... the past year heros have some market value but are equals... slowly the time arrives when the sMr_Customernt council has to decide who becomes what and so the value of people starts rising n falling... the annual day arrives, time where you need your music, arts, drama, elocution people ahead n you remember the last year's winners but this year's winners no doubt become the heros... sports day arrives... the sportsman becomes a hero, exam time... the percentage-leecher becomes the hero... there's NOTHING WRONG in the appreciations you get... but what is wrong is how you let it affect you and your relationships... you get carried away by these seasonal bunch of best friends and thus breaking the heart of your evergreen ones.
Same trend follows when you get into a workplace... your rise n fall affects your market value internally[ @ office: if u r single the opposite gender all of a sudden starts looking at you with rosey glasses or you know there are many ways to impress] and externally[your fam, relatives n friends: all of a sudden they rem you and call or even leave an offline on d messenger or text you sayin heyy hi I was remembering you... been so loooong... ;)]. Your spouse n children understand the stock rates very quickly too... but they have to stand by you, so they do till they can... :)
Am not saying all are fake, all am saying is... it's good to expand your circle of aquantancies... coz you never know when you meet angels... but in this whole race with ups n downs... DO NOT leave the angels you already had for an unknown or meaningless reason.
Some people are really important in your lives n you only realise when they are gone forever... but why can't we take one step fwd n see who are these jewels we already possess n keep them safegaurd in our heart's locker forever... :)
