Hello everyone, Its like a huge war for me to defend my self by a tag line called “Committed”. We always have arguments and quarrels just they wanted me to accept but Why I should if there's nothing like that might be they are jealous of that.
This stupid topic sometimes get changes to long discussion and gossip extends to late night and finally the result was void, but whatever they are saying that is just not acceptable for me.Now you must be wondering what am talking all about.
Its a thing that me and my best friend among girl “Sonam”. I always in a confusion that if a girl is your friend what do we say a “normal friend” or “(girl)-friend” or “girl friend” and this type of situation often arises for both boys and girls, but among all these the best parts are the friends they will always go for the third option i.e “girl friend” because according to them a boy and a girl cannot be a normal friend.”ek ladka aur ek ladki sirf dost ni ho skte.”but WHY.?
Just because they spend more of the time with each other
they have long chats in the night
they spends hours on calls
they go for movie together
they go for lunch/ dinners
give gifts to each other
I don't know whether these parameters are enough to call us a “Committed Pair”, but we often do these things with normal friend aren't we.? Sonam and I were in the same class same batch for Bsc. IT and we were having a nice friends group but we both are bit special for each other and special thing was not tolerable by the group that why they both stand for each other in any circumstances, but we don't know why we were so close might be three years obviously this friendship get a covalent bond tougher and stronger and yes we use to do all the above parameters which created doubt in our friends group mind three years its a big time.
This thing our group use to think that we are in “LOVE” with each other and a “Committed pair” not only the group friends but even our parents and all those who know us. We both had a full freedom to live our own life no parents restrictions so we had a full chance of it. We both use to go each others home on holidays and do masti and timepass her parents really like me and always will make some tasty dishes for me but this thing sonam don't like at all we things that why my parents take so much of pain for you I know that see is very jealous of it and vice versa happens when she come to my home.
But we both only had a one answer for all that “NO.We Are Just Good Friends ” Yaa were only friends and liked each other compnay so we use to spend time with each other but only reason we run from the word “Commitment”. In friendship you don't have any boundations, we are free can do whatever you want and this thing we both understand very well. Once a relationship can have a breakup but a friendship goes ever and ever and ever no ends.
Don't know I can't give guarantee about it might be a day come when this become true we actually get committed but for now there are no plans from our side just live the life its way long and enjoy the companies of one another and live a wonderful life.
Its been truley said that “Good Friends are hard to find, harder to leave, and impossible to forget”.
We are friends,
Whether the day is good or bad,
Whether I am felling happy or sad,
If I have a need, you'll comprehend;
You'll be there to share and be my friend,
Other people may fill my day,
But never in such an important way;
We support each other round all life's bends,
It feels so good that we are friends.
No:-(!.We Are Just Good Friends.:-) Keep reading many more to come.
Thanks,
Naveen.
