My youngest sister Abha Sinha( also a member with MS) got married on 22 Nov 2010. I request all of you to bless her for a happy married life.
I came from Chandigarh to my home town Ranchi on 07 Nov 10.... a bit late for such a big occasion. But I had sent my wife one month before for any possible help to my parents and my loving sister.
I am in my home town till 2nd of December.
By the time I reached Ranchi, my father had completed most of the jobs like the distemper to outer and inner part of my two storey house and the tenant was requested for vacating the first floor and he did so amicably as he was informed in advance.
As a lot of outdoor jobs were due, I got one of my friend`s Pulsar bike for three weeks as my father`s Bajaj Super scooter was too old to sustain the rigours of the pending outdoor commitments.
I first got one more mobile set of my father serviceable which was Relience CDMA set. It was sufficiently topped up too. I got the Local Tata Docomo SIM inserted in my father`s Nokia 1280 Set which I had gifted him before. It was also topped up sufficiently and of course Rs 6 SMS pack for sending Free messages to the Mouthshut mobile... Lol.
I covered a total of 700 km in 15 days till 22 Nov. That means I covered a distance for different outdoor jobs which was equivalent to going to Patna and back from Ranchi!!
My job included the purchasing taking my mother, my wife and my father at times. I remained in touch with all of them through the DOCOMO provider. I kept sending few messages to MS also in between whenever I got even a few minutes spare time. That was the only link to be seen as `Active` on MS.
But I indeed missed reading and commenting on the reviews, DPs and SMSs of esteemed members of our favorite site.
Though, I shall be having time crunch for the full December too, because of my Term End exam for MBA.
The traditional Indian marriage system is so COMPLEX, but I would like to endorse this system as the most successful among all type of system.
It`s so complex that a married person will think THRICE to break this bond....Lol.
The guests were invited though the Invitation cards and telephonically too wherever possible. the first stage was the Tilakotasav in which thirty members from our side went for `Faldan` to the groom`s residence. This event itself is a complex sub system and it gets `closely` monitored by the boy side. However things got almost right and we came back to our base in Ranchi.
Two days before the marriage our house was full of guests. The things got so worse that I was not able to find my socks, or undergarments, before taking bath!.
I was the front runner for receiving the `Baarat`. It also went smoothly as the boyside was sufficiently `funded` before!
I was feeling pity for the groom as he was going through all the rituals whole night till early in the morning. The `Bidai` was too emotional for all the family members from our side. I too, could not stop my tears........
Now, my sister has reached to her `sasural`. It seems all is well. We all have been talking to her regularly and wish her again for a happy new innings of her life. God bless the pair.
My parents are relieved which can be seen in all the activities of them as it was the last marriage for them.
