How to Win Girls and Influence Women - Dale Carnegie

This book is the same copy of the book how to influence people all the key notes are taken from there the difference is just that it was written about girls.

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I got this book from sunday market in ahmedabad and from osho commune international one of my friend borrow from me I want to read it agin . please help me how can I read it again ? if any soft copy is there please sent it to my mail and give me details  as well as if any one like to give me the book for reading please contact at my above mentioned mobile no.

I am waiting to read this book since last 10 years. and really I am very eager to read it again.

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Hi....I was touring the Book Mela with a friend of mine.....and was looking at some books which had a heavy discount on them.

And guess what .....i found this book with a 30 % discount. Now if it was up to me.....i'd sell this book at a hefty 30% premium. But NO....thats India for you. Anyways....i thought about buying the book for two reasons. I might find it useful....and incase I didnt.....i could always gift it to somebody who needed a pick-up-trial boost. And I have no dearth of friends who need that.

Right now thought....the book is doing rounds at some friends place.....its getting circulated properly.....once every 2 days....i still havent seen it after it got borrowed the first time.

Anyways...back to the book. The book provides a great insight as to how to acutally 'patao' girls. No hang on....that isnt correct. What the book actually tells us....is something like....All Guys have something which the others dont have....and the normal crap. But then what the book instructs us is......that.....the real hardship is just in getting the initial talk with the girl. What exactly do you talk with a girl.....whom u've just spotted at a bus stop or say Crossword or something,......thats difficult believe me.

This book also has the ideas of 26 gorgeous women.....who narrate how they've got picked up....and what kind of guys they like....and what they said.....and stuff. The interesting thing to note here is....One lady actually said.....he must not be too smooth.....that is....the lady shouldnt feel like he uses this line all the time....and is smooth as silk flirting without a tad bit of nervousness or discomfort.

All you potential flirts out there.....keep this in mind. Appear to be a little nervous and a trifle discomfortable. You dont want to be seen as a proffessional flirt.

Apart from that it also tells u.....that one of the things a women really loves is a guy's wit. Thats about the only thing i've been blessed with. I was in the Crossword chain of stores once....and there was this girl sitting at a table reading a book titled ''The World's most Amazing Organisms''

I've got a good eyesight so I read it from afar.....but even then I walked past her table slowly......then went ahead a couple of paces....and walked in reverse (reverse means reverse.....You can turn a car around and head back.....or you can reverse the car....and here reverse is what i'm talking about....i didnt turn around....i actually just walked in reverse like Micheal Jackson doing the moonwalk)

I stopped by her table....peered down at the name of the book and made a pretence of walking past.....and obviously she stopped me. ''Excuse me, Can I help you''. ''NO'' I said ''I just misread the title for something else''

She glances at her book......ponders on it for a moment....tries to think of alike sounding words.....

''World's''.....nothing much there....maybe Word.

''Most''.....Nothing there either.

'' Amazing.''....not much words sounding alike that

''Organisms''.....Organisms.....and she thought....uhhohh....he didnt....

but by that time....i had already walked off to the back of the store. 10 mins later she comes to find me.....her face a bright chilly pinkish-red. (I was going to take a snap of her with my cellphone...and show it to the Asian Paints wala who is going to come soon to colour my room.....like they say in the Asian Paints Ad....i would say ''Mera Wala Pinkish-Red)'' But there was no way.....i could get her to pose for me....so I dropped the idea.....now i'm painting the room cream or maybe something else.

But thats essentially what the book says.....Talk....it doesnt matter what u say.......you can even explain Einstiens General Theory Of Relativity to her.......but talk. If you do the former.....i cant guarantee you'll impress the girl.....but you mighty well will impress some scientists and physicts.

The book also deals with the fact....how different guys are blessed with varying specifications.....like a good body, charismatic personality, wit, inner virtues etc. Its just upto identifying and developing what you've got......into a potential girl-impresser.

A great book....a must read....and buy it and read it if you ever feel low on confidence.

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At the outset let me specify that though I had suggested this book to mouthshut.com , I had not named Dale Carnegie as the author. The book is by Carnegie Publications and the author is not named. I picked up this book from a streetside Fountain bookstall and lost it . I found another copy of it in a Kathmandu bookstore and that I have preserved with me.

Coming to the topic of the book, How to Win Girls and Influence Woman,primarily deals with how to deal with women and how to form a long lasting friendship.The author begins from the very first stage , what to do when you see a unknown gorgeous looking girl and how to start conversation with her ? The author also gives fifty great opening lines or conversation starters for different situations.

The author claims that this book was authored after he had interviewed twenty five great looking American girls coming from decent family backgrounds. A good feature of this book if I may say so is that reactions of interviewees on various situations are given. For instance the opinion of the girls on how they would like a guy to approach them are useful for tuning one's behaviour while approaching the girl.The experiences of the girls' on other matters are also given.

The author also enlists the experience of his not so good looking friend who managed to start a relationship and eventually marry a very beautiful girl.The author also stresses the importance of a good smile and coming to the point rather than beating about the bush while dealing with the girls.

The merits of the book are that it gives an understanding of the female mind and their expectations.This book if read in the right perspective can be a good guide in allaying the misapprehensions in the mind of men about women.For instance guys are fearful of rejection but the author teaches the readers how to cope with rejection.For me this book will help men communicate with and understand women better.

The demerits of this book are that it is suited more to the American sensibilities.Some situations and language of the book make it suitable to be read only by certain age groups.How far this book is useful to you and liked by you will depend a lot on your age, marital status an cultural background.

All in all a good book.

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