Its not that I over care for people whom I love, its just that I know the feeling of being ignored!!
Ignorance is one thing every human goes through or must be going through. It is that phase in our life, when we can’t just stop thinking about it. It keeps running in our minds 24/7. Doesn’t let us sleep at times, doesn’t really let us concentrate on work, doesn’t really let us do anything. The thinking cycle keeps running with high speed, back in our mind. Why all this??because the feeling of being ignored by loved one or the one who is so close to you really hurts....
Its not that they do it purposely..Its not that they enjoy doing it..neither its because you aren’t important to them..its because you have given that person so much of importance & made them feel so special..that it was obvious they have started taking you for granted.
Real Life examples.Eg 1: Your best friend, your most loved person etc wants you to go shopping or watch movie with them..you know how busy you are, you know you have this assignment to be sent next morning..but still you lie & say you are free & yes you can accompany along...
However, when you wanna go out with same person, that person pretends to be so busy..makes excuses to avoid the meeting..when he/she makes plans of going out with your common friend...(feeling-hurts)
I exactly know how one feels when this happens..but then we still let it go..why because we believe in “forgive & forget”.
Every problem starts when you allow someone to rule you, when you allow that person to take you for ride.
Drawing a line in every relationship is so damn necessary. Because that’s how you goanna stop yourself from getting hurt.
Many a times it happens..in new friendship, in new relationship..everything is just so superb in first few months & then eventually things start changing.
Before they could just die to be with you, but now you need to plead them for one meeting, one call, one text.
They have all the time in the world to update their FB status, to reply to friend’s comment..however no time to ask you how you been???
The point here is not about FB,comment or calling, texting..its all about how you get ignored..lost & finally lose that place which was once so special. At times they will make you feel so miserable because you were busy waiting to hear their voice, meet them & spent quality time. Suddenly everything turns to be so indifferent isn’t it???
This phase really hurts a lot & we often miss out on best things that could eventually would have happened. But then we were so busy thinking of this ignorance right??? If every individual starts giving importance to other individual, respect them & try to avoid ignoring, things can be so better.
Reason can be any but now that you are hurt, you are ignored..what next???
No point in standing still, thinking of same again & again. Stopping yourself from being you, when you know you can create special moments.
If that person is ignoring you or you feel you not getting that importance, try talking to that person..nothing is as good as confronting the same.
Try to find out what went so wrong???what is that, is stopping him to talk to you or to stay away from you. Because you never know there might be something from your side as well, which might have hurt that person..also giving tit for tat like you also starting to ignore..is utter “FOOLISHNESS”
Talk it out, find a solution, instead of sitting & thinking, feeling miserable. Getting hurt.
I don’t know how people will react on this diary..but then it has always been my try to convey some message in the end.
Here I am trying to convey...guys never ignore someone to that extent, that the person suffers so much..because that state of mind is really worst..That can cause to frustration and its contagious. So if one person is frustrated he will pass it to other. The chain will continue & moreover the person suffering will start staying alone. Loneliness is bad as well..so lets make an attempt..when you really hate someone for kind of things they have done to you..talk to them make them realize because no point in ignoring & holding grudges.
On the worst situation when its above tolerance his/her behavior & you decide to ignore..still try talking to that person & check if that person can understand.
Anyways,you live just once & life is too short to hold grudges..so lets make people happy..spread happiness, live to fullest!!!!
