Hello Friends !!!
Today I am going to tell you about MY LIFE.
Well you know my name.I am from a very small town (Means I am a small town girl). When I was a child I was very introverted by nature. People are very small-minded here especially for Girls & so my family is also small-minded (for me only not for my brothers). And being a Girl I do struggle in my Life (Not only with society but also with my family) means for every small thing.
I don’t know why some people of our society can’t support a girl. Why boys have freedom in every aspect of Life. Boys can take every decision of their life according to their wish. They can go anywhere & choose the profession they like. But for a girl a lot of questions come starting from… “Why, Where, How can u, What, When….” Etc. etc. (from personal experience only).
When I was in school my father asked “Do you want to study ahead” & at that time I was in 10th Standard. I was stunned.
When I completed my school study I had to face so many problems for study in College. After facing many problems I took admission in College.
As I said I was very shy by nature & that’s why I didn’t took participation in youth festival & Talent show during my 1st year of college. I participated only in Painting Competition as this was the only competition in which nobody had to speak something (I stood First in Painting Competition). But in 2nd year of my college I decided to participate in Choreography & then I feel that I am changing.
After some time I got a chance to join a MLM company & just & just bcoz of that co. I become more confident. Day by day my confidence was increasing. And one day I gave my first presentation in front of 100(approx) people & I was feeling really very happy on that day. In the last year of my college I participated in Speech competition, Poetry competition, Dancing, Painting, Singing & in Punjabi Giddha also. Whether I got prize only for Painting but I was very happy just bcoz I gained the confidence to perform. After that I also participated in Youth Festival in “Sanskrit Drama” & in “Mime” & both were recommended means both stood first in the competition then we also got a chance to perform the same acts at Distt. Level. That was the last year of my college & this was like Golden period of my life as I was totally changed.
But during my last year of graduation one day my parent said that we are going to get you married. But I wanted to live my life & wanted to do something so that they can feel proud on me. Again I had to do struggle. I told them about my ambition of life. Actually I wanted to become Air Hostess at that time but due to money & family problem I couldn’t fulfill my dream. So I decide to do study ahead but again family problem was there. My Father wasn’t ready to listen anything. They just said “Ghar par Baitho..Kuch nhin karna”.I said k I wants to do job…again they said “NO”.
That was the worst time of my life, no study & no job. Literally I was thinking about suicide as I was in so much stress. I was not in that situation to accept the same in my whole life. But one day God sent a Doctor at our home & they offer me to do job in their office. I told them about my problem. They just said “Tu chinta mat kar tere papa se to main baat kar lunga…” I said OK. And 23rd October 2006 was the 1st day when I join the office.Salary was not sufficient(Only 2500/- Per month) but as it was the starting point of my career I accept it.After a few months I joined an institute for correspondence MBA however my father didn’t want me to do study ahead but I did.After seven months of my job I got a chance to work with Bajaj Allianz LIC.In Bajaj Allianz I had given first interview of my life.I was a little bit nervous but at the time of interview I gave my interview with confidence (Interviewee specially said “I Like your Confidence”) & in evening I receive a call that you are selected.They also said that you have to come for training here for a month.When I told to my father about job & training they were not happy & won’t let me go for training.Again “STRUGGLE”.But my Mother & God was with me & I joined in BALIC.
To be continued----
