We live in a complex world and adding technology into this life it has become much more complex. Relationships are more fragile and Technology has made the relationships fragility complex. In nutshell we live in a fragile complex world where we look meanings in the words and speeches, We try to understand the perceptions by listening in-between and reading above or below the line. These perceptions have made to look everyone in suspicious and trust has slowing down in to rust. Many say that trust is the chain that builds relationship stronger and communication is the brick that makes build the trust. Relationship is also build to satisfy one’s ego, higher the ego fewer the relationships.
It was the month of wedding season, the gated community had more weddings than the previous year. The lighting in the buildings and community park had festival look. Sound of band and crackers reminded that there is wedding around and need to take part. Most of the weddings were at night, and with lot of dance and merry making. Some ensured that spirts are always high in these weddings and most of the men are well taken care. Most of the families within the community attend the wedding with gala time gossiping. There was a special family, well to do had their son’s wedding. As usual, this wedding was organized at night, with bands appeared to be a big fat! The family, had invited only the neighbors for the wedding ceremony. As anticipated, apart from the invitees, no one from the gated community either attended nor danced when the barth moved with the band. Neither the community wished as he stand in the open area… The wedding happened, the community took this as a personal matter and never interfered. Today we find many weddings were many are not invited, and even when invited they need to carry the card so get validated in the reception. Many invite the high profile, just to impress the world and show their status in the society.
A couple of month ago, one of the residences mother died early in the morning. By the time the sun could appear, the news touched each of the houses in the community. Many started pouring into the house in-white without any invite. There was no one said, I was not invited and hence I will not show my sympathy or condolences. Many waited until the body was laid to rest without any food. Even when a high profile is called to heaven, without invite people pour in to pay their last respect. That to dressed in White!
Many are not invited for many occasion’s, however when the body is wearing everything in white – within out, In White people pour to pay the last respect.
