Disturbing trends!
For a very long time, I’ve had a pest of a friend who follows the most illogical and redundant logic to stay ahead in the game. For eg, if I have something to eat, she will feel deprived about that dish or morsel, and the same thing goes on for even the most personal things in life, including relationships. I believe that we all are separate individuals with different needs and specifications, and that you really can’t feed off other people, like my friend is prone to do.
As a result of her illogical and debilitating behavior, I have lost out on many opportunities and friends as she keeps grabbing everything that there is in front of her, like a dying fish gasping for air. If this is not disturbing, what is?
On the flip side, I have never felt left out when she had relationships and never feel deprived when she gets preferential treatment. I also never regret lost opportunities and despite a lot of hardship, have just battled on fearlessly.
What I can’t grasp is why people believe that what she’s doing is right and never reprimand or correct her in her false approach? That just proves that all those jealous of my success will gang up and provide her comfort in everything that she thinks she has lost at my cost. Since when did humans nurture parasitic people? And why can’t people with the wrong attitude be corrected instead of encouraged? How many more losses is an individual supposed to endure at the wrong hands of perpetual wrongdoers? These are some disturbing trends plaguing my mind for as long as I can remember!
