Jul 31, 2003 06:20 PM
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(Updated Jul 31, 2003 06:20 PM)
Hello Friends
Thanx for ur all ur advices and for ur time to make me inprove in my writings. And I will hope that I will get the same response ever and ever pointing out my mistakes. I will try to improve myself untill u, my friends will tell me that its just perfect:)
So today one of the most common passion in this era is chatting. And Yahoo had changed the meaning of computer chatting. It had brought the real experience of talking to every 1 live. Its makes u feel that u are not talking to a person far away from u but it makes u fell that u are talking to some one sitting next to u.
Slowly and gradually u make more & more friends and u just began to love Yahoo. But u all know my friends, that every thing have two sides. And Yahoo is not exception from that. Its too have bad side. But we can try to minimize this side and try to use the possitive one fullest.
You know friends, that some become tooo adictive to this Yahoo and all, that they forget thier own social life and other responsibilities. Sometimes they even forget to have thier meal. This is not the good one. U should use it to make more and more friends, share culture of thier own countries, sharing the hobbies and other stuff. But that should be for time being. You should forget that as soon as ur sign out for that. To be honest, I am the one who was addicted too much of this but then I feel that is this the only thing, God wasted his precious time by making me. I wont be able to face him. So I tried to control myself from this. Today too I am chatting but its in a limit. I just use this net half an hour a day. More than that would be not good for my mental and physical health.
I have heard that a guy have left his wife as he began to love someone on net, OR that a guy or a guy is trying to ignore is hubby because of someone on the net. Some gal or guy left the house with someone whom he met on net. Thats the misuse of the technology. I dont think its fair. U are sacrificing someone who have sacrificed everything for u. NO! It should be stoped at any cost.
Again another dissadvantage is the missuse of the wrong identity. A guy or gal changes a name of his or her or even change the sex while chatting, and keep the other one in darkness of this knowledge. They flirt. I think this is biggest official place for the people to flirt. Yea I mean it. Its OFFICIAL. Some start showing thier body as other 10-15 peeps admire them. I just hate this.
Yea I think its good to use Yahoo messenger. It has given a lot and lot of facilities. But we are misusing them. They have given facility and we misuse it. Following are the some facilities :
Voice Chat :
Real Intention: To talk with friends and relatives staying away from u and feel that they are still there with you.
Current Intention: To just ommit all the vulgur things come in ur mind. They dont care for anyone.
Web Cam :
Real Meaning: To view a friend or relatives staying away and feel them alive.
Current Meaning: Just to show of ur body to everyone. Great.. Isnt it??
Chat Room :
Real Meaning: To meet some peeps having same interest and hobby as u.
Current Meaning: A place to find out all the blunders of the world.
This is disgusting. And I really mean that.
FINAL VERDICT:
Technology is for good things, please please dont waste it. Yahoo is great but we have spoilt it. It is we who have created all the bad things. OK. So be good.
Thanking u a lots for just getting out sometime to read my very long reiview which may look bore.
But my friends have asked me to be more descriptive and thats what I have tried to day
Yours
Naeem Merchant.