Aug 02, 2006 09:12 AM
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DATING TRICKS TO WIN HER OVER: - 4 MEN 2 PURSUE THEIR WOMAN
Flowers, chocolates, daily calls. done all that n still nt working for you? Ever wondered why? Not to worry. Without u to go too far or trying too hard I have customized all the picks n romantic keys to get you going.
Show us a man who says all the things that a woman wants to hear n I would show you the man who is truly happy.You want her to listen to your words n konw that you mean them.Rememeber there is an art of saying the right things/right time/right energy/intent n BINGO.there u go!
One moment she is hot n another moment she is cold n between these two extremes u r left pondering as to what did you do wrong? Men are simple things who can survive the whole weekend with three B's. boxer shorts, beer and batteries for remote control but women are really demanding. Going by the biological, sexual and social facts they are different. Reminded of John Grey's MEN ARE FROM MARS AND WOMEN ARE FROM VENUS. YO!
Women are sensitive, emotional beings, subtle, lovely creatures in short the better half of man. Their ways n approach 2 life is not only different from manly ego but also very real, full of love, care, n other finer aspects of life. Here are the keys to take a big leap.
MARK THOSE SPECIAL DAYS: Make a list of all the special days that she would like 2 celeberate-the day you met, /ur anniversary/birthdays/even ur 1st kiss. If not all, then take out special time n energy to lavish extra love/time/devotion/gifts/attention/on her on one OR all of these occasions.A little handmade card, even if it is plain paper folded with a simple note will serve the purpose.
REACH OUT AND TOUCH HER: Nothing brightens up her and ur day more than a warm intimate hug or little squeeze before you leave out for work.An inviting warm hug, back rub/love pats at the end of a hectic stressful day is always appreciated.If not possible to convey love through physical touch then a regular routine sharing via conversation would do.Rememeber the idea is to show that u care, that u r there 2 stand by her, all through her life.
MAKE HER FEEL SPECIAL: u can do little things 4 her everyday. Forward her an intense article, send her a joke/even office gossip.She would appreciate that u took the time out of your work 2 think of her during the course of your day and got in touch with her.
THOUGHTS THAT COUNT: Do some thing thoughtful 4 her every now n then. Make her a cup of coffee the way she likes to have it with little/more sugar, bring in newspaper 4m terrace, stick a surprise note in her bag, send her flowers at office/bring her favourite cuisine to office/home.Go ahead n make her day.
WOW HER DAILY: Just bcz u r 2gether does nt mean that you dnt pay attention 2 your appearance. Show off your best.Women love 2 see their men preening for them-shave/smell nice/look good. When she knows its 4 her she will love it.There is a reason why there r so many beauty contests MR and MRS polls n so on.Good looks sell n work to ur advantage-ALWAYS.
MIND YOUR MANNERS: Look straight into eyes.Dress smart/shave/smell great/take good care of your hands/nails/hair whether 4 popcorn or more.Limit the I-love-yous please.Let her crave 4 it sometimes.Delay meet-the-family for some time if marriage not on ur mind.It may create unwanted insecurity to both of u.ur body language is important as it reveals ur mind.
LET HER MAKE PLANS: Dnt always take charge 2choose n decide.Give her that option too.Give her one chance n u could get away with next hundreds of chances to boss her over.
SHOW RESPECT: Not just the face value but what we are talking about is what your girls personality is, who she is, what she does, how she does it.Every gal wants to hear that she is prettiest one 4 u.Said it already n she did not buy it?Instead of hurling it at her face directly try to make it special.Try this- "you have the most beautiful eyes I have ever seen!" Go for a well timed "Baby you are a gem" or that "you are my pretty lass/little squirrel". If you cant think of anything brilliant or sexy stick to the "you bring out the best in me." Mind that-it works all the times. The idea is to compliment her in a way that she understands that you notice her.Appreciate little things that she does for you.Acknowledge her place and importance in your life and convey that in words with powerful emotions.
EYE FOR DETAIL: The women are emotional suckers! If you notice the little things that she does she thinks you notice everything. Thats a myth-you know that. But thats what makes her feel special. Phew! So pay attention to the trivial things as her nail enamel, lip paint, new dress, new hair cut nad so on. Remember that half the times she is just decking and dressing up for you. SO NOTICE and please before poking as to how much money did she spend on that new lovely dress/cut do compliment that it looks good on her.
FOR BEING AN IRRESISTIBLE MAN: Know your stuff. Be knowledgable. Be it the brands, fashion fads or other things. Keep learning, attend lectures, read books, see plays, speak to the experienced people, learn from the been-there-done-that guys.Do whatever you can but keep learning. Its like building up your arsenal. Women like men who can talk, particularly those who know what they talk. Show her the stuff. No the idea is not to boss her but to make her feel that you
know your mind and your way too. Make decissions. this restaurant, that movie etc and see those decisions through. If you agree to whatever she decides you would go from being ideal to wimp in matter of weeks.
CONVEY: Tell her if you dont like something and work it out instead of creating the hell and emotional stasis. One has to check the others limits from being tresspassed. So communicate before the things become a routine to be taken for granted.
Not that just a compliment or string of words can make it happen.But how you say it/how u do it is more important.Next time when she talks 2 u look at her face instead of that idiot-box.If in the initial stages of your relation, dnt do overtry the physical intimacy as it may intimidate n turn her off. Otherwise use your limbs n eyes to convey ur feelings.Dont b together 24/7.Zeroing ur social life is lethal.Create space for not only urself but for her too.Have confidence in her, have faith and provide her the freedom.LIVE AND LET LIVE.So socialise with others as well n encourage her for the same too.Treat her the way you want to be treated.Last not the least manner-do not forget to be on time on the date.
So guys pull up your shorts and get going. all the best!
Angie.
