Nov 21, 2005 06:47 AM
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(Updated Dec 22, 2005 08:08 AM)
It's ironic that I came across this subject to review. In my 39 years as a woman I have learned if someone doesn't want you.no matter how fabulous, wonderful, or beautiful you'think' you are, they don't want you . Keep looking. Don't be discouraged, don't give up. I take a really deep breath, { because the wind IS knocked out of you for a minute} and move on.
I am part Black/Native American Indian and there is an old tale;Never refuse the love of a good Native woman;you{the disinterested male} is destined to live a life of loneliness and despair for it is an honor to be CHOSEN by a woman of this tribe.{I wish I could remember the name of this fable-I am researching it for you all}
So, with this knowledge; I pick up and move on. I suggest you do the same. Also, during a time of unrequited love, I listen to a lot of:edited Dec 21
STEVIE NICKS/FLEETWOOD MAC- Sara or Gypsy.
MARY J. BLIGE-Happy.
PETER GABRIEL-Mercy Street or Don't give up
SEAL-Kiss from a rose or Don't cry
the next one is so obscure I bet you'll never ever find this!.
10CC-Cry-this group was popular in the 70s-80s I think they are a british duo. This song played on Miami Vice{hey, that show was cool when I was in high school} The episode when Crockett has to turn in his french girlfriend. It played at the end of the show.
I guess what I'm saying is that everyone is hurt, betrayed, and BENEFITS from love. The songs listed should ease your pain a little.Just NEVER be afraid to love over and over and again and again and again.Hugs oxox