Yeah....Please. Review on Choosing Gifts for Your Girlfriend

Ok,  Mr. Neeraj , first of all, I don't think that YOU is enough for  a girlfriend. I think gifts are a very very important part of the message 'I LOVE YOU'. It does not have to be something ostentatious or extremely expensive. It can be something which ranks very low on the price scale but can strike a right chord with your partner and convey the messages which you probably wouldn't have said in a thousand years. And then, FOLLOWING the LIKES, DISLIKES of a girl is suicidal. Haven't you heard of the fact that women are a mystery. You never know what she might love and what she might not. I read an article once in the Reader's Digest which said that the best thing to buy a girl is the most useless one, the one which she cannot use and believe me I tried that once and it worked. It was a small, stuffed BURGER  PILLOW which I bought for around Rs.125/- at Hallmarks, I have bought better things before but she says she likes that the best.

Second, I think nowadays girls are more secure and have definitive goals in life than guys.  Look deep in your heart and tell me, isn't it you who feels the need for physical security. Guys, in general, find it difficult to be away from their girlfriends. They feel that if they are not with them then there is no LOVE. She might like someone else, she might not like me etc, etc, etc are just some of the thoughts that pop up in our minds. So, it is GUYS who feel the need the security, the MENTAL SECURITY. And then you go on and write girls need MONETARY security!!! Hello, WHICH WORLD ARE YOU LIVING IN???? Look into your own wallet and then check her purse, that might just prove it to you that girls are not that insecure financially.

You make it seem like she is the only one who is CRIBBING about the quality time you spend with her, like it's because of her you change 6 flights in 2.5 days, like if she wouldn't care, you wouldn't come. Don't you wanna just get back to her, hold her, be with her??? Hmmph!!!, She cribs.

Lastly, you don't have to do anything to make the girl you love feel secure. If you really love her, then it is implicitly done. You might not even have a clue about doing it and you would have already done it. Sometimes the subtle nuances, a nice gesture are enough to show her that she is NEEDED and that she is SPECIAL.

so, stop ANALYZING (not fruitful) your girlfriend and start LOVING her.

All you lovers out there, don't stop buying gifts for her, 'cos it's one thing which can make you look like you actually CARE. It is the encoded message of love and if she decodes it properly, then she will make you feel special too.