We start our journey of life as soon as we are born in this world. Some find it smooth, some face difficulties - many obstacles come in visible or invisible form. Not for a single person find it free of roadblocks, and nobody can avoid it also. How far have I have gone? I can say,I'm just in the middle of the journey. Quite a long way I have come, quite a lot to face yet. I've come across many people,many incidents- some of them went unnoticed, some of those left great impacts. All these things are experienced by anyone. As I said,nobody can avoid those. So what's that special in my case? Yes,something is left yet,which is extensively experienced by me in my life. May be many others also realize at one point of life,same as me. That is solitude,which has a keen relationship with one's success.
It would be the best if we would never grow up,because the growing process itself brings many contradictions and complications. From the moment one is born, some peculiar sort of invisible competitions start around the baby,who is not even aware of it. "Your son was born at the best hospital of the city,then why not mine?" yes,these sort of competitions are also there which sounds quite funny,but it has a great impact. The competition starts right from there. Relatives and family friends are always prone to compare the kid with their offspring. May be it's the school where the kid is getting admitted, or the quality of the new dress just bought by the kid's daddy. The competition continues.
Competition has a sinister attraction towards itself. Nobody can avoid it. To survive, competition is inevitable. The kid, unknowingly falls in the trap. He/she always knows that he/she has to be a part of this competition which results reward. In whatever form the reward comes, it's always the preferred choice, the kids learns this lesson as soon as he/she starts understanding things. The surrounding teaches this lesson. From the first race among friend's to the last exam of life,the competition continues. Both victory and defeat comes in various forms,but it only encourage to compete more and more. it's like a vicious circle. The more one wins,the more he wants to win. If anybody gets defeated, then also he opt for the competition once again to experience the success. Nobody knows the result,but the tendency is always towards the best. So one keeps running throughout his/her life.
