Life is a chain of relationship. People will LOVE the relationship only in two stages the first stage is when we are born and the last stage is when we die, inbetween these two stages we just have to manage. Today even though the life is very simple, but we have made it complicated.
It happend to be a visit last month with a friend - who gives free advice to all problems. As we were just meeting after a long long time and updating ourselves with the current job and happenings, I saw a women greeting a loud and asking him for help. Although I thought It was some personal problem and tried to walk out, the women insisited I to listen her problem.
I found the first word of discribing the problem statement quite uniqe " He is not good for anything" . Everyday if we keep our ears open and hear the conversation of todays mothers, One thing that come out intersting is the Curse. It may be for SON or DAUGHTER, the curse is " Nalayak and he is good for nothing" this translated in any regional language the meaning is left the same.
The foundation of the curse is demotivating to any child or teenager and make him belive that he is not good. To add support for the thinking the external help is sought !
We belive that valuing relationships is the foundation for any relationship, These value should bring or uplift the confidence of doing anything that has moral. Just silly instance of waking-up late or scoring less marks does need to be branded "Good for Nothing".
I heard the entire conversation, Emotions turned into the tears and still the faith of change in a mothers eyes. To much competative, comparision and growth for rich is unnecssarlity causing anxiety and stress.
Many a times we hear the word the world is a global village - but it has changed to golbal town & cities where each day & every day one wish to be earn lot of money and needs honey of money !!
